December Hype – That Time of Year!

Well, it’s that time of year, the December hype! It’s the time where we wish others a Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, Happy Kwanzaa, Happy New Year’s, or simply Happy Holidays. This is a joyful time of the season. We participate in many festivities and eat great food. We spend lots of time shopping for gifts for others and anticipate the gifts that others will give to us. It’s also a great time to relax and have fun with family and friends.

But somehow, in all the hustle and bustle many times we may neglect to realize that this could also be a stressful and difficult time too. This is also a time in which we may feel overwhelmed with all the things to do during this season, what to wear, or feel the need to get the perfect gift. Let’s not forget, the often overlooked, grief that may creep in our thoughts as we remember loved ones that are no longer with us. This grief can bring on sadness and loneliness at this time of year.

I ask that we each be gentle with ourselves and one another and not forget the reason for the season. This season is not so much about the physical giving and perfect holiday party hosting or having the perfect outfit (although I do admire a cute outfit) neither is what’s important. But rather it’s about giving from the heart and soul and sharing the gift of love and hope! So take a load off yourself. Take a moment to love yourself, a moment to give love to someone else, a moment see the real need, that we may lighten someone’s path and load as we too may be enlighten. Go ahead, reflect on those great times and moments that were shared with a loved that you miss, for they will always be in your heart. But we must not forget to reflect on those that love that are present and want to give us joy. Remember to be gentle and not push away a present opportunity to feel and be loved today by the people around you that care.

It is my wish and prayer that we do not let fear of overwhelm and perfection or the sadness of a loved one steal the inner joy our soul could experience in this present moment.

May love and peace abide in you (in us) and make 2017 a prosperous new year’s!

You can expect to hear more from me in the coming year 2017.

XO,

Until next time – Be You, Be Awesome!